WARNING (long and prolly nonsensical rant)
I've been really frustrated lately... I've only begun to really become aware of my responses to people and to certain situations and I find that responsibilities and duties have ran me most of my entire life... and that's its tough to let that go...you'd think it'd be kind of be an easy choice: "life of freedom or life of duty".. apparently not.
what really gets me though is that despite coming from a big family, you'd think your parents would have a greater sense in asking ALL kids to help out. i mean, that's a lot of free manpower they have at their disposal! but what do they do? dump most of it all on one. i totally don't understand why though.. i've questioned, and they've answered with all sorts of answers ranging from "it's because we can count on you" to "you should know better. and then you on most occasions, you get the guilt-trip of a lifetime over something small and it evolves into this whole massive lecture... it feels like getting hit by the bullet train..sudden and
real painful..
yesterday, the entire day was filled with orders... "do this, and do that" and even "why don't you do ____, you're not doing anything anyway."... and then some. it's really frustrating when you get no time to have for yourself. i barely get that in school and when i'm home, i'd like to see it as a sanctuary from your worries. if anything, i'd think i should feel more energized to work when i'm home, although lately, that's not been the case. once i do get to sit down and start relaxin, it just gets disrupted. i'm starting to think that there are things out there to get me.. to stop me from enjoying what i can possibly get out of life. and it's really sucking~ T_T the entire day - from the time i woke up, til the time i closed my eyes - i felt so....
lost.. i was feeling really pathetic and sad...everything just piled up for me..it was one of those days....
also, has anyone of you felt that you aren't being taken seriously or are being taken too seriously? and i say this for situations that imply the opposite of what one would call for, say, if its something you're interested in, they don't really take an interest...or when you crack a joke, they take it personally, even though they should know better because they
know you... if you have, i totally feel for you. i know what its like to have no one whose physically so close and yet have no one to turn to and no one to share your small joys with. it's frustrating to know that they all have this idea in their head about what you can do or might be able to do yet not supporting you in any shape or form. the expectation doesn't really fit skill, and its embarrassing.. especially when they start bragging about you and you know you got nothing to back it up with and in the end, you get burned by their anger and resentment because you did not live up to their totally baseless expectations.
so fucking tired.....
..i wish time would just hold still for a couple of days so that i may find what i have lost.//Posse//
//Clubbage//